I'd bet there are a lot of guys and gals who claim they aren't virgins just to avoid the BS. I think a lot of guys may exaggerate just a bit on how old they were when they first had sex, with a girl , when reminiscing with pals.
Captdon (09-27-2018)
People like to take others down and anything will do. Sorry , it's not a deeper answer, but we are not a deep society. I had my doubts but didn't think him "unmannly" . My doubts are based on a different bias . Namely that rich prep school kids drink, drug and have sex even more than other teens do. No proof, well maybe 151 ( LOL) just my own bias.
I think a lot of people project their own weaknesses on other people who actually have the self control to be careful about having sex, smoking cigarettes or trying dope. They are not the "$#@!'s" or prudes. They are the ones who do it right and most of them go on to have less troubled lives. Many of them get those traits from their parents who instilled some values into them.
I lost my virginity 35 years ago, haven't seen it since
my junk is ugly
Peter1469 (10-04-2018)
Captdon (09-28-2018),silvereyes (09-27-2018)
Nervous? lol
To your point though, all of this stuff is a personal decision and really not a matter for public consideration, unless of course if you're a SCOTUS nominee and potentially being blackballed which to be honest, I'm totally against creeps and all for due process but I have a hard time buying it in this case.
That's my opinion however, I'm sure not shared by some but I'm skeptical.
All that aside, that men are still virgins in their 20's, I'm not sure it's so much a stigma or whatever nowadays but it will always be a source of jokes because society still thrives on that. That it's rejected, I'm not sure that's the case.
Women are different, like it or not you guys are and I'm probably a bit separated from culture in the case of women virgins in their 20's but being kind of old school I think it's a virtue - which is probably a term not often used anymore.
Much like how I at one point thought a tattoo on a woman was kind of cute, sexy and lately I think women without a tattoo is hotter since women tend to have tattoos anymore. It's like being different by not conforming to what is the new norm.
my junk is ugly
Captdon (09-28-2018),Chloe (09-27-2018),silvereyes (09-27-2018)
Captain Obvious (09-27-2018)