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    Expressions.

    In life we find that we express ourselves differently. I have met people that feel comfortable using their bodies to communicate, and, other their voice. Some feel comfortable in the office, others in the bar. It all comes down to different comfort zones! Yes, everybody has different comfort zones, and, that means they identify with certain things. Maybe it is a social group, or genre of society, maybe it is a time of day, maybe it is a certain mood they are in. Actually, I think it comes down to emotive states brought about by where you are, how you are dressed and who you are with, orite?

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    How do you feel comfortable with your body? This would be where you need to feel superior, or, accepted. Of course, when you are in uniform, you feel you are part of a system, and, that brings you comfort. You know how colonial schools all have the biggest rebels, that is because they all feel accepted and part of a system, and, they choose to lift themselves to new levels of attention and stardom, at least for a while. Think of it like this, camouflage, calm, boredom. This is ignites a new desire to spray colours all over the place - naturally, the more peace there is, the more commotion we cause, the more commotion there is, the more order we seek, yes? This is because we want things to change because we believe things will be better if others see it our way, and, that means, subtly and subconsciously, that we need to display strength of some kind to make others change.

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    If we were to observe that some feel comfortable with their voice, then it is obvious that their parents listened to them when they were younger. This means we will gain more confidence to express ourselves with our voices, and, this make us want to talk more. This also leads to rebellion if the satisfaction of being heard is not met, orite? Think of people chanting at a rally, they want to be heard, while, the people that accept that nobody listens to them regress into the shadows. Obviously, we would want to listen to our children, to make them feel better and comfortable, and that means they will become confident, moral and not seek secret pleasures elsewhere outside of society, like cults, drugs, and, other things they feel they need because they seek the feelings of inner strength.
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    Eurythmy.

    With body language, we find that, as we found previously, people feel comfortable expressing themselves with their place in society, they feel more comfortable in certain moods, not places, it is just that people think that the the place that they see is why they feel that way, what they hear is influencing the way they feel. Truth is, the emotions you feel bring about eurythmy for you to exhibit, and, that is your body language. As a example, if you were to be walking out of school on Friday, you are flying, every step you take makes you feel "free," you are thinking of the weekend, and, you feel cool! This is because you are on your way out of school, and, school is a place of rules, regulations, but also your friends, so, you are walking out on the people you do not like to associate with your chosen again, instead of seeing others that don't make you feel comfortable, as they are not cited as peers. This means that you are waling into a comfort zone, subconsciously, orite? It has something to do with feeling like a rebel too, that is why you feel so cool, yes you do, because you are walking out of the throws of being told what to do too! Truth be told you are on your way home to watch television...

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    If you were to observe that you need to feel like you are in between worlds, where the next world is obviously better than the last, as the grass is always greener on the other side, then you will find that you will be optimistic, this is pleasant condition, and, is the opposite of Saturday, where you look around and think, hey this is not that great after all! Then, you may observe the rush of paranoia of Monday morning, when you are in between worlds again, feeling the opposite of Friday, where you feel anxious and expect the worst, yes? Every step you take on your destination, it is a rush, as it si not as bad as what you thought it would be! Yes, Monday mornings are when you go back to the productive world, and, then you feel bad because you do not know what to expect, but, you feel good because you have something to do again, not this sweeper role, where there is let downs, cancellations, people get sick, you get told, not, you got the wrong idea - that is Weekend. On Monday nothing but good news, so the day gets better, orite?

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    To understand these things will help you understand that you need to accept them. If you accept them, you move on to the next step, if you are pessimistic, you will find each step is wrought with doubt, and, pressuring yourself. This is because worry is bad... compare somebody running into the surf with a surf board, to somebody that is starting their car and trying to reverse, completely different feelings, hey? Yes, parking your car is stressful, and, that first swing out is horrible, hooting of the past leads to fear of it happening again, and, that means stress, bottled up anxiety, paranoia, not enjoyable. This means doing things you enjoy bring about fluent eurythmy and, that is because you are optimistic, and, that is because you are confident and accept it. The trick to accepting things is to not compare yourself to others, or, let go of it for a while, so that you may avoid the constraints of society, and be "the one." If you are never society, you will feel isolated, if you are never the one, you will never be able to do anything. These things need a blend, and, to find the right mixture for you, you need to be concerned with others. Think, now of screaming kids in the back of the car, if you tell them to shut up, it stresses you more, if you listen, you will be aware, not being the self! You must be the mother hen, you must worry, you must be optimistic, you must accept that things are out of your control, and, that you are expected to do certain things.
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    Phonic prowess.

    This is where you feel comfortable with your voice, something i for one have a problem with. Maybe if i express why I have a problem with my voice, it will help us find the right way to gain traction with speaking? Let's say I feel that I speak as if nobody is listening, like, you know, where we find that we are ignored? This starts at childhood, with parents, where we find that if they ignore us because they are busy, we think it is our fault, hey? This means it is hard to recover, and, easy to regress, as, we will regress because we are founded on that attitude, orite? This means we need to accept that we cannot be as naturally loud, clear, or others things as others, or, can we? How do they sound so good, why do they sound so good? This I put down to them feeling confident, listened to and so forth. It also comes down to sorting out what you are saying... what is your message? Is it important, do you care? Do you care too much - do you worry, hey?

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    We have now found that the more important the message is to us, or, the harder we think it is to be accepted by the listener, the more messed up it will sound. This is because it is hard to express, and, we feel that we are going to be rejected because of what we are saying. That is because it is not something they want to hear, or we want to say, or, is it? Think, now, is it the truth? Do they want to hear the truth, is that the problem... or, is ti that we do not want to speak the truth?

    Truth.

    This is where the essence of phonic prowess lies. Can we make the truth sound good? Of course we can! There are many styles in saying that you love someone, and, any time you feel you are not saying I love you, you feel you are about to be attacked! Then, there is caring too much, why do you care so much that you are not ignored, that is because you want to feel part of society, where you will be listened to more. Truth is, there is another way to fit in, by standing out, by leading, by being the centre of attention, hey?

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    To gain the voice you want, and, this will not improve your body language that much, you need to just speak, do not worry if you are telling the truth, the truth must be told. Maybe it is because you don't want to hear the truth back! Hey, there is a concept, you are scared of people speaking to you! Dwell on it...
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    Territory .

    With comfort zones, we find that we can expand them by accepting that they are different, and, we feel different. This is down to letting go of our previous comfort, zone and trying a new one, yes? Of course, to let go of one means we will feel as if we are lost, but, maybe that is not so bad? If we feel lost, we will look for something to cling to, and, that means that instead of holding on to out previous safety zone, we now look for something new, that we defer from the previous source of strength and find a new one. Hell, make yourself the source of strength, why not try to be contributor, a helper, a good citizen? This will make you feel like you fit in, and, are appreciated, and, that you are part of this new territory!

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    We could easily best someone up or come down on someone, maybe even make a fool of someone or ridicule something. This would make us feel superior, and, that we lead there, even though we do not really know anyone, hey? But, that is dangerous, asocial, and, evil... why not try to listen? If we go into a world with out feeling it, then we will be thunder in paradise, and, that gets dealt with! This follows that we should try to find our place, but, that takes time. Finding your place means observing, where do others fit in, and, what do others do, what works, here?

    Now,

    Once we have found our place, we can expand our roles and our territory. This means, with our new experiences, we can re enter the old world with a new role! Yes, we can then have two world to draw from, and, in our culturally varied universe, there is so much to be a part of, share and learn from.
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