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    Social graces.

    Yes, we are about to get into great depths, or, shallow understandings of social stuff, orite? This means we will be dealing with, how to be charming, how to interact, logically, and, other things too! SO, let's get to the whole issue, in this guide, based on science, what is obvious and my personal experiences for you to have at, if you want?
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    Charms - how to get your way.

    Okay! The whole point to being charming is to get your way, yes? Often, though, I use 'charms' to make people believe in themselves, as it is good to build people, makes one feel great, the other person feel great, and, society benefits from positive energies, of course.

    Compliments. We all like compliments, hey? They make us feel more comfortable, and, cost us nothing! Think of how you can, at the right pace, so it does not get boring, schmooze your way into someone's good graces? Think, now, if you say something to build the relationship, the relationship grows, yes? This is like from parent to child, where the parent needs to tell the child things so the child believes they can do them, and, they fail until, well, they do it! Like a program that states, if this, then, this, the child will learn the right path through the data and script to the solution, yes?

    So,

    We can say that if you are nice to someone, they may relax around you, and, you will become friends, orite? Makes sense, hey? Nice nice. If you are mean, you will scare them, as that is a challenge... challenges are met with challenges or submission, usually, or, sometimes, 'a lack of reaction.' This would be like a pause, and, might defer flight, as with typical animal behaviour.

    Now,

    The best things to say are things that the person cannot change. Things like you have nice hands might be too obvious, and, overboard, this is bedroom talk, orite? Think of something softer, something to get to the the heart of the person... how do you gently say something that the person thinks about a lot? How about something they can change, with women, and, things that they cannot change with men? This stems from the theories of men being obsessed with "features," and, women with "details." Features are things to do with the opposite sex, how to prove your worth in society by a lack of communication skills, testosterone based brute force ascendency, and, women with accepting things, and, trying to use estrogen for the camouflage of society, where they do not want to stand out - correction, let's call them alpha male compliments, and, compliments on their attire?

    * Yes, this is the opposite of 'chi,' where you give off an aura of power! This is not trying to stand out, compliment on how they fit in would do better.
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    Power charms.

    This power charm details of mine, this is where you win people over by virtue of your strengths and knowledges. Instead of trying to creep into their lives, you display strength, where you show them the ideas you have, and, the things you know. This is where you need to show you know what you are talking about, think of the words "acumen" and "competence." This is where you are the product you are selling, you are a salesperson trying to sell shares in yourself to the client, the listeners, orite?

    This follows,

    The right way to display value, that you are worth more, is to let them in on the action. First establish you are better than them, without being rude. If this fails, patronise them with overtures of supplementary or support for their conjectures or statements, okay? This will be where, like they say something, and, you say something resourceful to back them up. Think of it as if you are reassuring them they are right! That is failure of yourself, and, submission to the conversation and relationship, If, on the other hand, you win their respect, you can then to the best of your abilities, try to show them their contributing factors to society, in the form of work being the easiest, with logic and obvious statements being decorated with winks, things that, as they respect you, you show them respect, okay?
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    Rebel and challenge charms.

    We have now dealt with social and asocial charms, now for the antisocial charms! Yes, these are the most sought out of the structures of work and the roles set onto us, ans, they appeal most to people of youth. These are like standing out, not trying to fit in. These are where the person does not "kiss," does not "serenade," but instead "defies," okay? This is indeed the quickest way to make yourself rise to the top or get challenged, but, often you will have initiative, like going first is good, orite?

    This follows,

    If you want to stand out to attract whomever you do to you, like rolling the dice, to see where you fit in, knowing this is never done in a social environment or time frame, you need to think, "bad," okay? Are you bad? Are you a symbol of admiration? Conversely, this could be a affront to 'those of badness,' like smiting the devils of society, hey? This would be where you bear standard, you take up a cause, be it for yourself, or, for someone else, even a statement or cause, if you will?

    A cause...

    A cause could be where you find yourself shouting slogans at a rally or protest, where you choose to voice the cause. This would be where you use something that others support to support yourself, like a mascot, okay? Being a mascot means you will gather things to you under something else, and, share the rules of it, and, the gains. This is because you share strength with that symbol, and, if you do it right you could make a big win! Like a evangelical, orite?

    Or, yourself?

    If you choose to make yourself the symbol, you will need to display some sort of strength, in some form. Be it a yuppy, which some enjoy being, spitting at someone, which would be a direct affront to someone that you decide to challenge, or even speeding on the road, wearing loud clothing, or anything else that draws conspicuous attention to yourself, yes? This attention is what we do not seek, but, you seek it because you know it is chosen by you - you are making stand, choose to lose it. This infers control onto energies, dark energies, that drive us to gather testosterone and emit great power, okay?
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    Cute charms.

    The most social and easiest way to get your way is to be innocent. Then, no matter where you stand, eventually the other types will take you for a fool! Yes, you want them to think they can use you, and, unless they are pure, they will try to seduce you with their... 'powers,' okay? This is where you keep asking questions, everyone likes to teach, you keep on reaching for people, everyone likes to be serenaded, you just keep on telling people you are interested, orite?

    So,

    This I have learned through usage, and, yes, it works. This is the way to get into a conversation, just keep knocking at the door, every door! Keep telling people they are cool, even if they are not. Be a spinning centre of positivity. If you read my others books, you will find that this is contributing through positive energies, continually searching for more space, orite?

    You dig it, sucker?
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