One of the young ladies in my office, a young lawyer, invited us all to her wedding in October. It was two hours away, on a Buckeye game night, on my birthday. When Mrs. U RSVP'd for the reception only, this young lady came into my office all upset about why we would only come to the reception and not the ceremony - 5 hours earlier and an hour in the other direction. I told her it must've been a mistake. Everyone in the office went. We bought a gift off of her registry and gave her a check.
It has been 8 months and not one of us has gotten a thank you note for the gifts we sent. This woman is now reportedly pregnant. Two of the secretaries in the office say: No wedding gift thank you note, no baby gift. Mrs. U agrees. My thoughts are that this woman works for me, I'm a partner and it would be poor form low class not to give her a gift for this blessed event.
Thoughts?