Interesting, we raised two boys and they are fine men. But a line I read recently reminded me again that we men do differ and we forget. It said men are only happy when preparing for the hunt without women along. There is truth to that as we are products of evolution. But the woman in the OP has a point too, look only at all the mass murderers. Lonely insecure white men usually. Look at the white supremacists who marched in Charlottesville. Look at the thread by bb on AOC above. Look at Hillary hatred? What a phenom that was and still is. Why are men, especially conservative men so insecure?
"The shooter is almost always male. Of the past 129 mass shootings in the United States, all but three have been men. The shooter is socially alienated, and he can’t get laid. Every time you scratch the surface of the latest mass killing, in a movie theatre, a school, the streets of Paris or an abortion clinic, you find the weaponised loser. From Jihadi John of ISIS to Dylan Klebold and Eric Harris at Columbine, these men are invariably stuck in the emotional life of an adolescent.
They always struggle with self-esteem – especially regarding women – and sometimes they give up entirely on the possibility of amorous fulfilment. There are different levels of tactical coordination, different ostensible grievances and different access to firearms, but the psyche beneath is invariably the same."
https://aeon.co/essays/humiliation-a...mass-shootings
"The trouble with Eichmann was precisely that so many were like him, and that the many were neither perverted nor sadistic, that they were, and still are, terribly and terrifyingly normal. From the viewpoint of our legal institutions and of our moral standards of judgment, this normality was much more terrifying than all the atrocities put together." Hannah Arendt
https://aeon.co/ideas/what-did-hanna...nality-of-evil