"Sodomy" between consenting adults was at one time a criminal offense in most if not all states; for all I know it may still be a crime in some parts of the Deep South. So as far as how "that" - the societal micromanagement of what parts one has and what one does with them in private - would work, I think all one has to do is to look at the way American society, through its laws, dealt with such matters until very recently to obtain a good picture of it.