Originally Posted by
DGUtley
I was involved with a case once. The boy was a superstar baseball player from a Catholic School in Cleveland. Had never been in trouble before. They had met in college, weren't dating but they were playing googly eyes. It was her 21st birthday and they were going out with a bunch of people. She'd told a bunch of her friends she was going to "do" him. Anyways, they went out and they both got goon-stinking-drunk. They went back to his dorm, climbed into his bed. She promptly passed out. He went to sleep. He woke up a few hours later and she was covered in vomit. he took her into the shower, fully clothed and put her under the shower to clean her off. She suddenly was raring and ready to go. She finished her shower, they went into his room and had sex. They went to sleep and she got up and went to her dorm.
The next afternoon, she was describing what happened to her friends and one of them said 'he raped you b/c you were drunk'. He was charged and kicked out of school, and not permitted to reenroll in a state school for 5 years. He was refused counsel at the student conduct court. His defense all along: We were both drunk, she initiated it, she raped me.
My firm came in, got the criminal charges dismissed and sued the school for violation of his rights. We found a guy and his girlfriend making out in the study lounge across from the showers that saw them go in the shower and then come out of the shower. The girl testified that he was clearly more drunk and that the complainant was saying amorous things. We resolved the case with a cash payment to cover his scholarship and the re-enrollment ban lifted. To this day, and I sat in on and/or took 7 or 8 depositions, he was the victim.