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    Quote Originally Posted by jet57 View Post
    Barack Obama was eleven years old when Title IX was passed.
    It's still his fault. He is a magic $#@!, or so I have heard.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Perianne View Post
    It's still his fault. He is a magic $#@!, or so I have heard.
    For people with very low IQs, I believe you. You low brows blame everything on Obama: your people can't fix anything, so you just go around blaming others. Kids do that all the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Perianne View Post
    It's still his fault. He is a magic $#@!, or so I have heard.
    Quote Originally Posted by jet57 View Post
    For people with very low IQs, I believe you. You low brows blame everything on Obama: your people can't fix anything, so you just go around blaming others. Kids do that all the time.
    It was a joke, Jet. The smiley face. I know it's not Obama's fault.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Perianne View Post
    It was a joke, Jet. The smiley face. I know it's not Obama's fault.
    You have to be careful around Democrats. They are too enraged to have a sense of humor.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Perianne View Post
    It was a joke, Jet. The smiley face. I know it's not Obama's fault.
    Well I'm glad to hear you say that. I thought you might be joking, but with the other opinions you express it didn't sound so joking.

    I apologize and will remember your dry sense of humor in future.

    Happy Monday

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    Quote Originally Posted by DGUtley View Post
    Agree. What happens if both were equally drunk? I had that case once.

    The man is at fault naturally! I never bought the drunk regret rape thing. Passed out is rape, but if she's drunk yet able to participate actively that's sex. That's what we used to call lessons learned. The idea that a young man has to walk around with a blood alcohol machine is absurd.
    I find it very strange that a woman call call it rape if she was drunk BUT be held responsible for her actions if she drove home in the same condition. Are we as a society responsible for our actions when we are drunk or high or not?
    How can a society be so sexual in it's media, conversation, sometimes clothing and even humor and so uptight about the actual act?
    I'd recommend a sex bot to young fellas these days.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adelaide View Post
    Sorry.



    Title IX training was primarily geared towards sexual assault on campus (which tends to be the focus of training for undergrads) and then because I will be working with faculty there was some information on defining and reporting sexual harassment. Also, I will be in a position of authority over undergrads and some grad students so that's another new aspect that the training touched on.

    And no, I don't believe it's about how a woman would define it. Almost everyone in this thread seems to predominantly focus on the idea that loads of women are crying rape because they regret a decision to have sex, but having worked with victims of sexual assault, it seems to be the other way around. A lot of women (and men) don't recognize or understand a past sexual encounter that was not consenting or healthy (unhealthy in terms of not being illegal but traumatic somehow). It is surprising, actually, but I think it's how the human mind protects itself (denial) and also the result of a lack of education on the issue. Of course, this is anecdotal based on my experience as an advocate.

    Being prone to express yourself in one way wouldn't excuse inappropriate behavior if it happened. Behavior can be modified.

    What do you mean by "joke in ways"?
    So you are saying that woman don't know they've been "sexually assualted" until they are told they were? That explains a great deal. I heard that some feminist rejected the idea of teaching college girls methods to stay safe because somehow trying to avoid rape made the vivtim responsible iof they were raped anyway?
    Is that true?

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    My rule is if you willingly spread 'em, that's consent.

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    Quote Originally Posted by donttread View Post
    So you are saying that woman don't know they've been "sexually assualted" until they are told they were? That explains a great deal. I heard that some feminist rejected the idea of teaching college girls methods to stay safe because somehow trying to avoid rape made the vivtim responsible iof they were raped anyway?
    Is that true?
    Women are still taught how to try and prevent themselves from being sexually assaulted. Yes, people point out that it isn't right that someone should have to actively avoid a slew of things because another person is a predator.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adelaide View Post
    Women are still taught how to try and prevent themselves from being sexually assaulted. Yes, people point out that it isn't right that someone should have to actively avoid a slew of things because another person is a predator.
    Right has nothing to do with it.

    Reality- focus on that.

    If a woman is going to put ear buds in and blast music as she jogs though the bad part of town, there are several decision points where she could have prevented her rape and murder.
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