How Do You Prefer the Opposite Sex?

[CenterField]

I usually prefer fellers with their clothes on.

Well, I said, decades ago. I was young and horny, and in awe of getting an eyeful of Valerie's assets...

[Collateral Damage]

Everyone will have a different answer because we are all different.

I like tall fellers. My present feller is 5'11", almost a foot taller than me. I could never date someone shorter than me because he would practically have to be a midget!

I work with a girl who is 4'9". It is odd to be taller than another adult.

How do I prefer the opposite sex?

Medium rare, thank you.

[carolina73]

I don't have a type. I just don't like fat. And I don't like obnoxious or stupid.
I would probably be have murder charges against me after a date with Mika Brzezinski, The Housewives of _____ or the woman on The View.

[CenterField]

I don't have a type. I just don't like fat. And I don't like obnoxious or stupid.
I would probably be have murder charges against me after a date with Mika Brzezinski, The Housewives of _____ or the woman on The View.

LOL, very true; once you pass the horny teenager/young adult stage, you realize that the most attractive quality in a woman is intelligence. I definitely don't care for those who are only pretty with their mouths shut. And then, dumb is bad, but nagging and obnoxious is also horrible.

My wife is a calm person who doesn't talk much (but when she does, what she says is intelligent). She is not anxious, not clingy, and is very self-confident and self-sufficient. If I'm in a bad mood or something and want to be left alone, that's what she'll do: she'll leave me alone. She is the opposite of obnoxious. But if instead I want some support and want to discuss something with her, she is immediately all attentive and available.

You've noticed that I am more anxious and more catastrophic... my wife is never impressed with anything. She says about COVID-19, "I can only control what I *can* control. I take precautions but I don't allow the whole thing to worry me too much."

We spend months without fighting. When we do fight, she is usually the one who says, "wait, stop, what are we doing?? We're not being rational. Let's calm down and think about this from a different perspective. What exactly are you trying to tell me, and what do you need? Let me know what you're thinking, calmly, and I'll listen."

I think my wife is a better person than I am, and more mature than I am (I can be a goofy grown kid sometimes). Because my two kids benefited so much from her guidance since they were born (and frankly my own mother wasn't as great a person as my wife is), I think they are both more mature than I am too, LOL, despite the age difference...

Sometimes my wife used to say (while our two kids were still home), jokingly, "well, I have three kids at home. The least mature one is the oldest." That would be me. LOL

Still, lucky me, that gorgeous woman seems to love me... sometimes I think I barely deserve her... but I do have some qualities that she appreciates and respects. One of the biggest, while she is calm and reserved, I'm bubbly and gregarious... so she says I bring a lot of fun to her life, the kind of fun she wouldn't have without me. I'm usually saying "let's go to this restaurant! Let's travel to this place" and she goes "Hmm... let's not." But then she ends up accepting my plan, we go, and she wildly enjoys it, and says "thanks for having convinced me."

[Cotton1]

I usually prefer fellers with their clothes on.

With that avatar you should have no problem with that.

[Private Pickle]

I don't have a type. I just don't like fat. And I don't like obnoxious or stupid.
I would probably be have murder charges against me after a date with Mika Brzezinski, The Housewives of _____ or the woman on The View.

You're in North Carolina right?

[hanger4]

Everyone will have a different answer because we are all different.

I like tall fellers. My present feller is 5'11", almost a foot taller than me. I could never date someone shorter than me because he would practically have to be a midget!

I work with a girl who is 4'9". It is odd to be taller than another adult.

I prefer the women my wife tells me to prefer, which is her

[carolina73]

You're in North Carolina right?

Nope. The other one. Or to you Southern Cal people, I'm from "the other SC".

[Private Pickle]

Nope. The other one. Or to you Southern Cal people, I'm from "the other SC".

Oh right.. I had a lot of false hope there...

[CenterField]

Nope. The other one. Or to you Southern Cal people, I'm from "the other SC".

Close to Charlotte or farther away? Because we consider the SC part just south of Charlotte, to be... Charlotte. We all root for the Panthers anyway.