I have found that "country" means different things to different people. Where I grew up we were the only house on our road and then acres and acres of farmland. Then, we got a neighbor on the other side of the ditch. Now there are 3 more houses on our road. We are still separate by acres and acres, but it is still too close.
Cthulhu and I live rural, but we live in a town of 1000 people. We live "in" town. To me, that is not country. Country is miles and space and no close neighbors. That is my ideal. At least 30 min from the city.