First kiss and meaning

[Chris]

I don't remember either so it must be more important to girls.

[Peter1469]

It's not a bad dread but just the dread of those nerves in that moment and all of those thoughts going through your head at a thousand miles an hour. It's a weird thing to go back and examine but kindof fun. It was scary as can be and you felt so exposed at the time but I would love to experience that again in the exact same way. I could be overanalyzing it of course, I do that, but still.

You will.

It is new every time with someone special.

Now if you are drunk in a bar that is another matter altogether.

[Chloe]

I don't remember either so it must be more important to girls.

How do you not remember your first real kiss? I'm not talking about like when you are like two years old and your parents have you give a little peck to another two year old for a picture that you don't even remember i'm talking about your first real kiss.

[Chloe]

Could just be because guys are more embarrassed about talking about this stuff and so they just simply "forgot"

[Peter1469]

Could just be because guys are more embarrassed about talking about this stuff and so they just simply "forgot"

I forgot. At least the kiss part.

[Bob]

I was a junior in high school and on an outside bench waiting to go into a restaurant on a date prior to a school dance. I think it definitely means more to girls than it does to guys but i'm sure there are plenty of guys out there that save that memory too. I know that it was a big deal to me personally and is one of those lasting memories. Granted it wasn't THAT long ago so i'm sure eventually the memory will fade I guess but for now it's one of those memories that I miss and dread all at the same time.

OK, I am taking the bait.

8th grade a cute Mexican girl. Never kissed her again.
Next was Bonny W after we went to the movies. This was just prior to the 9th grade. Bonney broke my heart by messing with some other guy. LOL (by the way, compared to how much better I was as an adult, those were not good kisses.)

[Chloe]

OK, I am taking the bait.

8th grade a cute Mexican girl. Never kissed her again.
Next was Bonny W after we went to the movies. This was just prior to the 9th grade. Bonney broke my heart by messing with some other guy. LOL (by the way, compared to how much better I was as an adult, those were not good kisses.)

No bait intended Bob, thanks for answering

[Chris]

How do you not remember your first real kiss? I'm not talking about like when you are like two years old and your parents have you give a little peck to another two year old for a picture that you don't even remember i'm talking about your first real kiss.

I just don't remember. It may have been Elizabeth the first girl I danced with. That was 8th grade. I remember dancing. It was a Catholic school and all the other guys were a twitter giggling at me. But I was having a good time. I remember kissing my first real serious girlfriend a couple years later but I know there were others in between.

And you had to remind me of my aunt, the one who wore bright red lipstick and would smear it all over my face kissing me just to embarrass me. Yuck!

My parents weren't the kissing, hugging kind.

[Chloe]

I just don't remember. It may have been Elizabeth the first girl I danced with. That was 8th grade. I remember dancing. It was a Catholic school and all the other guys were a twitter giggling at me. But I was having a good time. I remember kissing my first real serious girlfriend a couple years later but I know there were others in between.

And you had to remind me of my aunt, the one who wore bright red lipstick and would smear it all over my face kissing me just to embarrass me. Yuck!

My parents weren't the kissing, hugging kind.

I rarely rarely wear makeup but I remember wearing lipstick to a couple of dates when I was in high school to basically send the message to the boy that I was not going to kiss him.

[Peter1469]

I rarely rarely wear makeup but I remember wearing lipstick to a couple of dates when I was in school to basically send the message to the boy that I was not going to kiss him.

That isn't the message the guys got.