I would not say 'most'. Of course there are racists on this forum and all other forums, white racists and black racists. We would be kidding ourselves if we thought racism will end, it never will. The best we can hope for is a society where racism is almost non-existant. I thought we got there when Obama was elected in '08. I was wrong. A black man became the most powerful politician in the world. Sadly, the race baitors had to work overtime to keep the races pitted against each other or they'd be out of a job.
I'm going to blame the media again, they give the racist leaders air time, which I feel is wrong. That helps feed the tensions and turmoil.
You're right you've been black longer than me. lol I'm not black, I'm white but I have been able to see things a bit better from my step-daughter's family and her black husband. I see how his family sees us, I see the distrust of 'anyone white' and the bigotted attitude. They were not happy he married a white girl and said so very often. My husband's family was not thrilled either but remained silent, phony really. It's been 16 years they're married and when we are all in the same room, his family and our family say very little to each other, basically one word answers given with a faint smile. You could cut the tension with a knife. It shouldn't be that way. The kids can pick up on that stuff. The four kids look black and identify with their father's family more than their mom's family.
We're all the same but different. People will always be more comfortable with those they can identify with. Maybe one day that will change. We can only hope.