Some women just don't get the hint.

[whatukno]

Are you wrong???

Yes

How? I think I am doing right by what's important to me. I'm up front about what it's going to be. I could be wrong, but I want to hear why.

[Cigar]

Dinner bills? If I go out on a date, my son is there, which means a lot of kids themed restaurants. High end restaurants and romantic dinners aren't in my schedule.

But am I being unfair?

I'm not rushing back into anything, hell, I'm upfront telling these women this ain't going the distance.

But this woman today acted like I ripped the heart out of her chest!

Do you thang, whatever make you happy.

Being upfront is all you need to do.

[Cigar]

Stay classy

What?

I'm telling it like it is ... for me that is.

[whatukno]

No, you're making a rational adjustment to the situation. Feminism is unnatural and has stolen all American women from us, not just the screechers. But I would look into Asian women. They haven't been infected over there and come here with their femininity intact.

I think you are thinking the exact opposite of what I'm thinking here.

I really am not going for a subservient woman. In fact, I want just the opposite, a woman that has a life of her own to live. An independent woman, someone that doesn't have to see me all the time, and we can email but can come over when the mood strikes. Like a mutual booty call.

Little hint guys, you go into any store with a kid, and geek out with him in the toy aisle? If they weren't wearing shorts or pants, women's panties would drop down instinctively on their own.

[hanger4]

How? I think I am doing right by what's important to me. I'm up front about what it's going to be. I could be wrong, but I want to hear why.

Prostitutes are up front too and their's no doubt how the evening will end.

[Captain Obvious]

Prostitutes are up front too and their's no doubt how the evening will end.

Yeah, with herpes

[The Xl]

You're not a homosexual?

[The Xl]

Honestly, it sounds like you're attracting/picking unstableish women, or you may be really, really leading them on.

[donttread]

This is going to seem crass, and a tad bit heartless. Cause frankly it is crass and heartless. But I just don't want a long term relationship with a woman, a weekend, maybe a week, and that's about it.

I've done the whole "love" thing, It's fine, till you get married, and have kids, then your priorities change, my son became more important than my wife, (he's freaking awesome in every way possible, who can compete with how epic my son is?) So, long story short, she got a boyfriend, and left me, (I was down with that.) Divorce, 6 year custody battle, and I have my son and the baggage is gone.

So now, I'm happily single, I have sole custody of my son after she went Loony Tunes (I take no responsibility for that, mu hu ha ha ha! *Cough* ), I really don't have time for a woman, and besides a little nookie now and again, I have no real need. Some women don't get this and I have no idea why. I'm blunt as all hell from the jump where my priorities are (my boy) and that what I am getting into isn't serious at all.

This last one, (and now that I think about it the last one too) get all clingy, Even start planning the marriage? "$#@!! I barely know your name!" This one I called Theresa, (I think it's Tracy, not 100% on that) I had to stop her and say, "Listen, you got to go, just don't come back." (Total freaking meltdown mode.)

The hell? I was with this woman about a week.

For the record, no, they really don't have a lot of contact with my son, I tell him "You have a mom, these women will never ever be her" His mom comes over 3 times a week, (she can come over anytime I don't care, he loves her and he should.) And they talk on the phone every day. She doesn't have any parental rights at all, but that's the courts, I can't take my son's mom away from him permanently. (that wouldn't be nice to do to my boy)

And to be clear, no, I'm not saying I have a string of girlfriends one after the other. I'm not just out here being a man $#@! doinking everything that moves. Just most of it. (kidding!)

Have I lived in Florida too long? Am I wrong here?

If that's want you right no problem as long as your honest with the women and don't involve these short stay women in your sons life

[Captain Obvious]

Honestly, it sounds like you're attracting/picking unstableish women, or you may be really, really leading them on.

Ya think?