Okay, I just watched it. I had to watch on my phone, and had to create a youtube account to watch it, so you owe me one.(I kid, I kid, hope that didn't sound like male privilege
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I think it's undeniable that in many genres, mostly mature ones, but others too, that women are seen as objects and are overly sexualized. I'm guessing that programmers and developers create games like this thinking that the majority of their market is the male demographic and that this will help them sell more copies, it is a business after all, and people in this industry, like nearly every other, are looking to turn a profit. It doesn't make it moral or right, but it is the nature of it. When you consider that people buying these mature titles are looking for edginess, sex, violence, things of that nature, and that in some games, over the top sexuality may even be part of the genre, then they may have a point. Frankly, I think a lot of the problem is that women allow themselves to be exploited, over sexualized, and painted in a bad light, a material only light, by continuing to give these developers business. As you've proven before, a large chunk of gamers are female, and if they all went on strike so to speak, and didn't monetarily support these games or even game companies, I think you'd see a change pretty quickly.
As far as women being used as trophies in games, it certainly does exist and is quite vulgar and demeaning in some cases, but I think it's important to note the differences between how some games go about it. Their is a huge difference in the way Grand Theft Auto and God of war goes about it, and how a Super Mario Bros goes about it and to a lesser extent, Metroid. The former is vicious and distasteful, showing women out to be objects that are used, and the latter is generally fun and innocent, no harm no foul in my opinion. If anything, I thought Metroid put women in a good light, showing them to be both strong and also sexy while still remaining tasteful. I think when things like that are conflated, it turns the the average person, the average male specifically, off. I think more traction would be had with the sentiment if they stuck to the really bad stuff.
Male privilege certainly exists in the mind of some males, and certainly it's a problem. Like she said, a lot of elements of society play a part to some extent, and sure, video games play a role. But at the end of the day, we all have our own free will, and no matter what is around us, it isn't an excuse to act like a jackass. I'm someone who plays many different genres of games, yes, even some that exploit women in certain ways, like Grand Theft Auto, yet I don't let it dictate how I view or treat women. People need to be held accountable for their own behaviors, I feel like society is always looking for an excuse or justification for everything.
Also on the privilege bit, it felt like she was condemning all men, or most men, as if this male privilege exists within the vast majority of males, and I don't think that's fair. I also feel that she was insinuating that every male, either consciously or unconsciously, has some degree of this privilege and sees women as pieces of meat to some degree, and I don't feel that was fair or accurate. All in all, I understand and even agree with a lot of what she says, but I think in some cases, it's taken a bit too far, whether it's merely insinuated or explicitly stated. Interesting watch, in any case.