This is the simplest form of magic in that you work everything our through senses and emotions. there is no way to hide your emotions from flying wasps and bees, butterflies included, and other mammals and birds, as it is present in your heat aura you give off, okay? if you were to look at a mood ring, you would see that the heat from our body is manifested as a colour on the ring. this is the heat or frequency your body is operating at, of course. this goes out of your body, and gets less and less potent the further it travels.
So, back to the whole onus of this, controlling flying insects, yes? this is obviously what you want, to have a butterfly make patterns in the air the way you want it to, yes? to have it flutter a kiss from you to your boy friend, or to amaze children that will grow up thinking this is normal?
If you want to build up a relationship with 'the flying things,' the first thing you need to be is innocent. they will sting this innocence into you if all you really want to do is sting others, as this will manifest as black energy, hate in other words, okay?
~ As a precautionary measure, wear a mood ring in the garden. this will tell you, as you lie to yourself and dismiss any doubt, that you are in the right mood to be there, looking for bright colours would help, but not fear as in white, okay?
So, to guide nature to do your bidding, you need to think of something favourably to get them to go there. this can be done by, if you are in the right mood, enchanting the object or area with your own energy, through waving in that direction, to crudely put it. this will exert 'waves' carrying your aura to the object or area where they will manifest as the energy temporarily, of course, or blowing your own words, which carry energy of all sorts there, maybe in a song, will do the trick.
This is as far as we will go for now, try to get them there!