That is hard. My first wife left to work for NATO and when I told her I wasn't moving to Brussels without a job she signed the condo over to me and told me to have a lawyer send her anything she needed to sign. It was about $560 bucks. But I did spend a lot to replace furniture and other stuff she took. But I bought high end stuff. Some of the stuff was arriving after she had what she wanted moved and before she left. She noticed the step up and said "well played [my name]."