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    Not light hearted, sorry

    Some time ago, my Viking Bride became sick. I haven't been on here, because I've been either working, or taking care of her.

    She left this world behind a few weeks ago. My Viking Queen still owns my heart and my soul.

    I think she saw what was coming, even as I didn't have a clue. Over the last six months or so, she and I have had a lot of talks about things. We both promised each other that, whichever of us died first, the other would go on, to take care of our beloved pets. She wanted a very simple funeral, as do I. And we both promised each other that, if we were the one left behind, we'd not give up on life, but would find someone else to spend our remaining time with.

    I made those promises convinced that I'd be gone long before she was.

    I kept my promise about the funeral.

    I'm keeping my promise about the pets. I'll keep going until they're all gone, and I won't have them put to sleep just to ease my burden. They'll live out their time, with all the love I can give them. It's what I promised. The only way I'll break that promise is if I pass before they do. I'm making arrangements for them to have loving care if that happens.

    I'm going to have to break the third promise, though. I'll have friends, and quite a few will be women. But there will never be another in my heart. It wouldn't be fair to them.

    I don't know when I'll be back. So allow me to thank anyone who leaves condolences now.

    We always said that the TV couple who best describes the intensity of our love was Morticia and Gomez Addams. I hope you all have either found, or someday soon will find, someone you love as I love her, with every fiber of your being.
    Getting upset about someone else's marriage because of your religion, is like getting upset about someone else eating a doughnut because you're on a diet. - Unknown

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    I'm sorry to hear about your wife, but I am glad you decided to share your story. Peace be unto you and hope you will find the time to drop in now and then to talk.
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    Sorry to hear. Be strong.
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    Sorry for your loss. Stay strong friend.
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    My friend! I am so sorry to hear of this news. I have made similar agreements with my dear wife. She even made up a book of things I needed if I had to go on without her. She has owned my heart for almost half a century and no one could ever take her place. Bless you and I wish you strength in your journey forward. Try to take some joy for your little pets and remember they had her love and now miss her too.
    Suppose you were an idiot. And suppose you were a member of Congress. But I digress....

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    You are a good man and wonderful husband. We all can only hope that we enjoy what you and your "Viking bride" shared.
    " I'm old-fashioned. I like two sexes! And another thing, all of a sudden I don't like being married to what is known as a 'new woman'. I want a wife, not a competitor. Competitor! Competitor!" - Spencer Tracy in 'Adam's Rib' (1949)

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    Quote Originally Posted by CreepyOldDude View Post
    Some time ago, my Viking Bride became sick. I haven't been on here, because I've been either working, or taking care of her.

    She left this world behind a few weeks ago. My Viking Queen still owns my heart and my soul.

    I think she saw what was coming, even as I didn't have a clue. Over the last six months or so, she and I have had a lot of talks about things. We both promised each other that, whichever of us died first, the other would go on, to take care of our beloved pets. She wanted a very simple funeral, as do I. And we both promised each other that, if we were the one left behind, we'd not give up on life, but would find someone else to spend our remaining time with.

    I made those promises convinced that I'd be gone long before she was.

    I kept my promise about the funeral.

    I'm keeping my promise about the pets. I'll keep going until they're all gone, and I won't have them put to sleep just to ease my burden. They'll live out their time, with all the love I can give them. It's what I promised. The only way I'll break that promise is if I pass before they do. I'm making arrangements for them to have loving care if that happens.

    I'm going to have to break the third promise, though. I'll have friends, and quite a few will be women. But there will never be another in my heart. It wouldn't be fair to them.

    I don't know when I'll be back. So allow me to thank anyone who leaves condolences now.

    We always said that the TV couple who best describes the intensity of our love was Morticia and Gomez Addams. I hope you all have either found, or someday soon will find, someone you love as I love her, with every fiber of your being.
    Im sorry creepy I feel for you, its most mens nightmare to outlive the one they love.

    You know she wants you to go on with your life and be happy, You will be together again, this is just a temporary separation. Hang in there
    LETS GO BRANDON
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    Condolences COD.
    History does not long Entrust the care of Freedom, to the Weak or Timid!!!!! Dwight D. Eisenhower ~

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    It's the price we pay to live. Sounds like you and the Mrs.'s would be described as, "well lived". Best wishes!

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