Last edited by Ethereal; 03-22-2018 at 12:25 PM.
Power always thinks it has a great soul, and vast views, beyond the comprehension of the weak. And that it is doing God service when it is violating all His laws.
--John Adams
If you disagree with Polly, she is liable to make some kind of crazy accusation towards you. Just the other day, she accused me of sympathizing more with Nicolas Cruz than with his victims. Now she accuses The XL of hating women. It's only a matter of time before she accuses someone of being an actual rapist or murderer.
Power always thinks it has a great soul, and vast views, beyond the comprehension of the weak. And that it is doing God service when it is violating all His laws.
--John Adams
It's probably because of her personal experience. She was raped, ergo all women who claim rape must be telling the truth. The problem is, not every situation is the same, not everyone is honest. She only sees one possible victim, the woman crying rape, not the other possible victim, a man potentially being falsely accused. I could say that she hates men based on her nature to take women at their words and not men, but I realize that it's just a mix of her experience and her impulsive nature.
I think that there is a creeping isolation happening. Increasingly, kids can't even just go outside and play with friends. Play, has to be scheduled on the "activities" list. Add in the use of computers and cell phones and kids communicate with each other more frequently electronically, via text or online media, than in person. Many parents don't spend much time with their children other than shuttling them to and from school or their scheduled activities. Part of that is because more often than not, both parents work and both commute from distant suburbs to their workplaces, so by the time they do get home at night, there is little time for bonding and conversation. It's a fast meal often eaten in the car enroute to wherever, then go home (if they can) and catch up on some chore, go back, pick up the kid(s) and then get them ready for bed, if the kids are younger. Weekends may be just a scheduled or with the current rate of divorce, time for handing over the kid(s) to the ex and possibly picking up a different set belonging to the new spouse and more scheduled activities. It's a bizarre way to live and reflected in the alienation and social dysfunction that you see in some kids.
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"The difference between what we do and what we are capable of doing would suffice to solve most of the world’s problems.”
Mahatma Gandhi
It's about 2 centuries in the making.
Whoever criticizes capitalism, while approving immigration, whose working class is its first victim, had better shut up. Whoever criticizes immigration, while remaining silent about capitalism, should do the same.
~Alain de Benoist
It really depends on the culture. I don't know about 13 but certainly 15 or 16 was plenty old enough to have learned the skills necessary to survive in a hunting and gathering or farming society because they had been doing those task for years. Today even if a child follows in a parent's foot steps they don't learn the skills because the parent generally works outside the home and they would still need that piece of paper even if they had learned the skills.
Even now a pregnant teen in my state can make medical choices concerning the pregnancy but NOT for herself. After delivery I believe being a parent makes you an adult for medical choice purposes.
We still have states with an age of consent of 18 and states with no ":Romeo and Juliet " clauses. You can hunt at 12, drive at 16 , babysit at 12 or 13, have sex at 16, 17 or 18 depending on your state , buy alcohol at 21, vote at 18, and sign up to kill and die at 18 and purchase tobacco at 18, 19 or 21. Be insured by mom and dad until 26 Combined with the "parenthood makes you an adult " clauses the bottom line is we are an extremely confused society about what constitutes adulthood.
You're right, @The Xl, there was no call for those kinds of remarks and conclusions on my part. There's no excuse. It won't happen again.The XL wrote:
If you're going to half ass an apology, you might as well not apologize at all. A shame, because over the last 6 years, between this board and Trinns, I've always treated you with respect even if I disagreed strongly. To charge me with hating women because I'm trying to look at all possibilities from all angles is shameful.
You have a big issue with dissent. You flip $#@!, demonize, and personally attack almost everyone who disagrees with you. That temperament is not becoming of a woman in her 30s who is also charged with the heavy responsibly of teaching and shaping our future, the youth of this country. Get your $#@! together, compose yourself, and act/debate like an adult.
MisterVeritis (03-22-2018),The Xl (03-22-2018)
I agree, it is all over the map. That is because we have old laws and new laws existing in disharmony, with each century adding to the list in isolation. No doubt the original driving age was predicated on the fact that when horses were replaced by cars, kids who worked on the farm had to be able to continue to pick up supplies. By sixteen they were at least tall enough to see over the dashboard and learn the basic rules of the road. The drinking age was raised to 21, largely because of drinking and driving - and the inability of teens to resist the impulse to pack a vehicle with several teens and drive while drunk or foresee the consequences of their actions in combination with the ability of vehicles to reach speeds over 40 miles an hour.
Eighteen is the age for military service for several reasons. They are fully grown, in good health and impressionable and secondly, they are not yet usually married with children, so quite expendable. Sounds harsh, but that's the reality.
The ages for marriage are some of the oldest and really tied to the history of those states. The more rural and agricultural, the lower the age. Families were happy to unload their marriageable girls because they were extra mouths to feed and not as physically capable of really hard farm work.
The bottom line is that behind every one of those ages, there is a cultural driver.
It's probably time to undertake a comprehensive review and rationalize the age of majority.
In quoting my post, you affirm and agree that you have not been goaded, provoked, emotionally manipulated or otherwise coerced into responding.
"The difference between what we do and what we are capable of doing would suffice to solve most of the world’s problems.”
Mahatma Gandhi