Last edited by TrueAmerican; 09-08-2020 at 11:35 AM.
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Likewise, I know many young women watch instructional porn to learn how to give head.
We aren't left twisting in the wind to discover what works by trial and error anymore. That is a good thing! But that isn't what most young men want to watch; or young women now. They tend towards porn that is more and more perverse and unrealistic.
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Re anal, one interesting thing I've learned is that a certain percentage of women can have an orgasm through anal. It is believed that this may result from their deep G spot lying close to the anal canal. What is interesting is that I met a woman like this and she was secretly filled with guilt. Her religious upbringing made her believe anal was evil. So deep down she thought she was evil for liking it. I actually explained to her that other women like anal. She is not unique. I believe it is in the range of 15% of women enjoy it. The rest that will do it just tolerate it for their mate if the are even willing. But that usually doesn't last long! LOL!
In my experience, one of the biggest things that sex education should address is the subject of guilt. That has screwed up people probably more than any other single factor. Victorian morality and religious crap created a country that was largely sexually repressed.
Last edited by TrueAmerican; 09-08-2020 at 11:47 AM.
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Beyond reassuring all young people that virtually everyone else masturbates, young and old alike, what also should be addressed are fetishes. The fact is, we all have a fetish or two. A fetish may or may not be kinky. It may not even be sexual. For example, one of the most extreme examples I ran across is the fetish some men have about toe length. There are a few men who get aroused if a woman's third toe is longer than her second toe. I kid you not!
For me that really helped to put things into perspective. Fetishes are not only normal, they are deeply rooted in our psyche. Who knows what drives some of this? But historically people who have fetishes exposed have been ridiculed and even vilified. I think it would go a long way towards the mental health of young people to know that they may have strange desires that don't make sense. That too is normal. Everyone has a strange impulse or two.
In fact, there really is no such a thing as "normal" when it comes to sexuality. It is truly a multidimensional spectrum. I happen to be a classic white male who loves hot legs on beautiful women, and who has a voracious sexual appetite. But it didn't take long to understand that I only represented one data point on a very large map. As for fetishes, I have two that I know of but nothing crazy. However, I have talked with people who have to keep a defibrillator in their sex bag.
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Thank you for asking. What i mean is, everyone knows sexual behavior is much more than biological.
Back in the 60's two German 12 year olds were discovered trying to have sex because all they had heard was "how babies are made" and nothing lese. Keeping sex education all scientific and clinical yields behaviors like that.
People need to know it is much, much more than a biological act, and it needs to be taught that way.
Not just sex itself, but sexual behavior in teens and pre-teens as well. They should not get their knowledge from sex farce sit coms.
Nor should they be scared to death of it with horrible VD pics.
I swear, as a fleet sailor, I could give a much more honest and realistic sex education to the kids than any textbook ever could.
TV and movies portray kids screwing all the time. Just because they can, does not mean they should.
There are also other positions and acts that do not lead to pregnancy, but again, that does not mean they should do them.
Girls need to know giving in because some guy wants it, does not mean he loves you.
I have had to tell my young sailors there are girls out there who will try every trick in the book to get you to marry them, just so they can get out of Boringtown, USA.
Other young women in the Navy only enlisted so they could get married. In a women's boot camp company of 100 young ladies, only 2 were still in a year later. I saw that same behavior in college. So many young women enroll in college for their MRS. degree....so the joke goes, but it is true.
I saw it in my own squadron. We got four boot women and in six months three were pregnant and out. I am glad the Navy has since changed that policy.
Sexual behavior in the human animal is a complicated issue and is much more than mere biology.
Thank you, I hope this explains my stance better.
Last edited by Retirednsmilin308; 09-09-2020 at 10:06 PM.
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In your experience? How many times have you been around the block? Do your remarks reflect what is taught in college now, because it's pretty much the same ol' that was taught 50 years ago. Apparently, forward progress has stopped, if you are to be believed, which you aren't.
Why shouldn't people feel guilt?
An individual can be sexual and acknowledge that humans are sexual beings without the label of a "loose woman." Talking about and understanding sexuality is not the same as being a what I assume you would call a $#@!. And regardless, why does it matter if a woman has a lot of sexual partners if she is responsible about it? Uses birth control, protection, doesn't get pregnant, doesn't pass on any illnesses, so forth? Who is she hurting? Is she hurting you?
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Dr. Who (09-10-2020),Peter1469 (09-11-2020),Retirednsmilin308 (09-10-2020)
In the Victorian Ear men were expected to be experienced and women were supposed to be pure as the driven snow.
So how were men expected to be experienced without the assist of a few " loose women".
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I feel a woman is only truly liberated when she can do what she likes without the judgement of other women.
Women judge other women much more harshly that anyone else.
When it is not allowed to be questioned, it is not science, it is PROPAGANDA