Red Lily (07-19-2022)
In quoting my post, you affirm and agree that you have not been goaded, provoked, emotionally manipulated or otherwise coerced into responding.
"The difference between what we do and what we are capable of doing would suffice to solve most of the world’s problems.”
Mahatma Gandhi
"Loneliness" is not always a bad thing. Furthermore , being alone and lonely are two different things altogether.
I embrace being alone. I can do what I want , when I want, how I want etc .
People can be very cumbersome. I spend 80-90% of my time alone. It gives me freedom to problem solve, focus on my interests and not be compromised having to entertain someone.
3-4 days a week I go out in the late afternoon to a sports bar I like and talk to the same 4-5 people but only sparingly. I don't sit next to anyone. I distance myself literally and figuratively from others when im alone.
I speak to others mostly as a courtesy.
I find a tremendous degree of freedom not being a needy person. In some ways I'm more fulfilled than I have ever been.
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This my brother yo
We yo yo
Carl Young (08-11-2022),CCitizen (07-19-2022),Peter1469 (07-20-2022),Red Lily (07-19-2022)
Progressives are Passionate about establishing Totalitarian Tyranny.
Conservatives are Apathetic about maintaining a Free Society.
I admit my online activities do comprise an important part of my socialization. I prefer it that way.
Now, if I were you and needed a lot of friends IRL etc I'd simply start looking outward as opposed to inward so often.
Show an interest in what other people do. Go outside your comfort zone, it'll take a while to acclimate to increased socialization so be patient with yourself.
Remember most of all that people love to talk about themselves. Give them that opportunity.
You have a lot to gain and nothing to lose
I'm yo.
This my brother yo
We yo yo
Carl Young (08-11-2022)
Gaming has done that.
It would be interesting and............I'm betting that it wouldn't take long to identify the screamers and before long, when they walk in, the room would magically empty. I know I would not ever be in a chat room with someone who screamed or yelled. I know where the off button is and I'd use it.
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CCitizen (07-19-2022)
Definitely, any voice chat has a moderator and rules. Anyone can moderate a Jitsi Meet room.
Progressives are Passionate about establishing Totalitarian Tyranny.
Conservatives are Apathetic about maintaining a Free Society.
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